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DISCIPLINE--Not for the Faint of Heart

12/19/2015

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Discipline is a term that seemed to be more prevalent in the Christian journey in days past. We would especially hear about the disciplines of Lent.  How would we sacrifice and mortify our senses during that holy season?  Do we have self-discipline and self-control when it comes to our overall moral life?  Do we even care about doing what is right and good?

Discipline is developed in a variety of ways in our individual lives.  We have many people who influence us along the way.  This can be either a positive or negative influence.  A parent can encourage, support, and correct a child so that values are instilled in a positive and uplifting way.  A teacher can inspire in a multitude of ways.  An athletic coach can be a guide, a mentor, and someone who pushes us to reach our full potential physically, mentally, and emotionally.  A pastor can preach, teach, admonish and exhort us to solid Christian living.  All of these people of influence have the potential to impact us in some dramatic ways.  However, the ultimate decision to act with conviction rests within each of us.  Will we follow the guidance we receive? Will we work hard to accomplish the goals we want to achieve?  Will we faithfully walk humbly with our God?   

I was reminded of the word discipline today as my son achieved another milestone on his way to a particular goal.  He wants to achieve a Black Belt in the martial arts.  This morning he passed his test to become a Brown Belt.  The coveted Black Belt is drawing ever nearer.  It has taken years of practice and self-discipline to reach this level, and there is still much to achieve and master before earning that Black Belt.  Self-discipline will be vital to complete the original objective my son set for himself eight years ago when he began this trek in the martial arts.  (Relocation of the family and some other setbacks through the years have slowed the process, but the dream has  never been squelched.)

Looking back at my younger years I also devoted a lot of time to achieving certain things in athletics.  I had nothing to do with growing to be 6'8" tall. That was apparently God's design for me, but I will readily admit that it was quite helpful on the basketball court to be that tall.  I also spent hours and hours practicing the fundamentals--dribbling, passing, shooting, defensive stances and moves, blocking out, and on and on.  There were many times I wanted to quit, and a couple of times I did.  Was it really a goal worth pursuing?  Those are the decisions we each have to make.  Ultimately, I played all the way through my college years, and I am extremely grateful for the opportunity and privilege to have had that experience.

There is one decision that should not be left to chance.  That is our decision to walk with God.  How are our "skills" developing in this arena?  Are we growing as people of prayer?  Do we faithfully study the Sacred Scriptures and pray with them?  Do we deny ourselves and take up our cross daily and follow Jesus?  We can't be wimps.  We need stamina; we need perseverance; we need courage; we need faith; we need hope; we need God's grace.  Are we sincerely seeking to be equipped for the journey?  These are questions we each have to answer for ourselves.

Congratulations Joe on achieving Brown Belt status.  Let the discipline of the martial arts overflow into the discipline of your spiritual life.  Be steadfast and walk always as a child of the Light!

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One Week Until Christmas

12/18/2015

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Are you ready to light the fourth candle on the Advent wreath?  Are we truly preparing the way of the Lord?  Let us make this fourth week of Advent a marvelous week.

On page 202 of the book, The One Thing, by Gary Keller he says, "Your environment must support your goals."  Thus, my question is a simple one. Are we creating environments around ourselves that lead to sanctity?  Is holiness important to us?  

   In closing, I quote from the same book by Gary Keller from page 142.
      "Happiness happens on the way to fulfillment."

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Cleaning Up--Looking Back--Going Forward

12/17/2015

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 I typically do not spend much time on the road during the last couple of weeks of Advent.  I am grateful for this time prior to Christmas to clean up some things that have been awaiting attention.  Cleaning up my e-mail inbox is one such task.  I won't tell you how many thousands have accumulated, but the capacity level is nearing.  It is time to free up some space.

Going through the list of e-mails reminds me of the many great experiences that have come my way through the autumn season.  One such memory was the retreat in Cape Girardeau, Missouri on September 18--20, 2015.  This gathering with the deacons and their wives, as well as deacon candidates, from the Diocese of Springfield-Cape Girardeau was a phenomenal weekend. (At least it was for me.  I hope they feel the same way.)  It is hard to believe that three months have already passed since that gathering.  I was deeply touched by this group of dedicated and faithful men and women serving the Church across southern Missouri.  I took some time to reflect before hitting "delete" on the corresponding e-mail conversations.  I also offered a prayer for these men and women as well as their whole diocese as they await the appointment of a new bishop.

Taking time to give God thanks and praise for the many blessings is probably something I don't do frequently enough.  In the hectic pace of life I can easily find myself taking things for granted.  That is not a good thing.  Two different hospitalizations this year have reminded me of the gift of life and health.  It also reminded me of the value of family, friends, encouragement and support.

A number of deaths have impacted my life this year.  My mom's death on October 30 has obviously changed the holiday picture this year.  A number of friends have died this year including one just last week.  "Dot" has been a dear friend for almost 30 years and will be missed.  A brother-in-law died in September.  This impacts the whole family but especially his wife and kids and grandchildren.  A former co-worker lost her dad earlier this year.  Please know of my prayers Pam.   A parishioner here at the Cathedral lost his son and a grandson in an accident back in January.  How devastating that was. Christmas will certainly have a different feeling this year for his family.   A friend of mine from southern Colorado died back in January as well.  I had the privilege of preaching the homily at his funeral on January 30, 2015 at St. Benedict's Parish in Florence, Colorado.  I know that these days before Christmas are a challenge for his wife and kids as they prepare to celebrate Christmas for the first time without him in the midst.  Even though nearly a year has passed since his death, the first Christmas will still be tough.

As I look through the e-mails and my calendar, there have also been many joys during 2015.  One of these memories is my daughter's wedding in May. Next week will mark seven months since that wonderful day.  

Bottom line--look back and give thanks.  Look ahead and give praise!​
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Maria, Tyler, and Bishop Paul Etienne
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When Is My Ship Coming In?

12/16/2015

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The day my ship comes in I will probably be at the airport.  Sometimes things just seem to work out that way.

What are we doing with the opportunities in our lives?  Are we making the most of life by planning, preparing, and executing those plans with purpose and conviction?  Do we know where it is we want to go?  

As 2015 draws to a close have you given any thought to 2016?  We do not know the day nor the hour when we will be called from this earth.  Are you uniting your heart and mind with will of God?  Please don't miss the blessings!

"If your ship doesn't come in, swim out to it."            ~Jonathan Winters

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Women Of Northern Colorado--4 Months From Today

12/15/2015

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Ladies, celebrate "Tax Day" by getting away for the weekend at the beautiful Abbey of St. Walburga.  Register early because space is limited.  I look forward to seeing you just four months from today.
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Men Of Northern Colorado--One Month From Today

12/15/2015

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Turning the page of a calendar can always bring excitement when we start thinking about different events.  What holidays land during this month?  Who is celebrating a birthday or an anniversary?  Is my vacation scheduled yet? The possibilities are endless.  When we turn the page to a whole new year it reminds me that I am getting older.  I need to pick up the pace to accomplish what I have set out to do.

As I sat and reviewed my 2016 schedule this morning I am excited about the various events already scheduled.  On January 15, 2016 I will speak at the Northern Colorado Men's Forum for the first time.  That is only one month away.  These events are put on my calendar months in advance and then suddenly it seems like they arrive out of the blue.

​What are you looking forward to accomplishing in 2016?

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All I Want For Christmas Is...

12/14/2015

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What do you want for Christmas?  That is a fairly common question during this time of year.  I was on the receiving end of that question recently and all I could think about was a variety of songs.  It is interesting how our minds work sometimes. 
 
The first song that popped into my head was, “Nuttin’ For Christmas.”  This Christmas song written by Sid Tepper and Roy C. Bennett became a hit during the 1955 Christmas season.  I will admit that this song always caused a little concern for me in my younger years.  Would I really get “Nuttin’ for Christmas”? 
 
The next song that came to mind was, “All I Want For Christmas Is my Two Front Teeth.”  This is a tune written by Don Gardner back in 1946.  As I listen to the words of the song now I yearn for such simple times.  As world problems mount and violence increases, it would be wonderful to enjoy the innocence of a simple request to have missing baby teeth replaced.
 
What do I want for Christmas?  The list is quite long so get ready.
 
I want a world in which God is truly honored, worshipped, and adored.  I want a world in which everyone who bears the name of “Christian” actually lives like they really believe that Jesus is the King of Kings.  May we truly call God, “Wonder-Counselor, God-Hero, Father Forever, Prince of Peace!”
​(Isaiah 9:5)
 
I want a world in which the Church models holiness.  This begins with the leadership and filters down to everyone in the pew.  May each of us be witnesses to the love of Jesus Christ.
 
I want a world in which there is a genuine respect for all human life from conception through natural death.  As long as we live in a world that is okay with exterminating millions of innocent children in the womb, we are destined for difficult times.  The legalization of a behavior does not automatically make it moral.  The taking of human life through abortion, euthanasia, or physician-assisted suicide is much more than a legal dilemma.  It is a moral issue.
 
I want a world where human trafficking and sex slavery is nonexistent.  People being used as objects and held against their will is devastating to the sacred dignity that each person holds as a child of God.  I want them to be set free.
 
I want a world in which broken hearts can be mended.  Relationships can bring immense joy.  They can also bring heartache, anger, bitterness, and un-forgiveness.  In this Year of Mercy I pray for reconciliation, healing, and comfort for as many individuals as possible.
 
I want a world which strives to lift people up out of poverty.  I pray that we are more effective as a society in creating jobs to give people the opportunity for gainful employment.  The creation of wealth through a vibrant economy has the potential to reduce poverty more effectively than the simple redistribution of wealth.  I pray that entrepreneurs and corporations provide an abundance of opportunities for people to make a living wage.
 
I want those who are sick to be restored to health.  Through the expert care of medical personnel and the guiding hand of the Divine Physician I pray that those who are hurting will be healed.
 
My last wishes for Christmas may need a miracle.  I want a government that works.  I would like elected officials that are willing to do the hard work necessary to strive for the common good of society.  I would like officials with integrity.  Furthermore, as government expands and bulges at the seams, I would like accountability factors put in place for all those employees who are not elected.  As power is given more and more to political appointees rather than elected officials we run the risk of greater corruption. 
 
I would like a media that shares the truth with us.  We need more “hard news” and less commentary and opinion.  Tell us the facts and let us interpret for ourselves what this means.  If the press is not free to do its work, or if it is pushing its own agenda, it won’t be long and our country will no longer be free.  The “free press” is one of the guarantees we have of holding our politicians accountable.
 
Finally, I would like an educational system that works.  While we are stressing over standardized assessments and teaching to the tests, our students aren’t growing in love with learning.  We seem to be okay with indoctrinating them in regard to what they should think rather than teaching them to think.  I yearn for a system where we really help them to be successful.  Teach them about leadership and integrity so they can excel in whatever field of study they choose.  Stop accepting mediocrity.
 
What do I want for Christmas?  I want a world that embraces common sense.  Is that too much to ask?
 

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Going Forward When We Can't Clearly See The Way

12/13/2015

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Last night I drove to church because there was a special ceremony at the cathedral in which the bishop was going to "open the doors to the Year of Mercy."  The snow had stopped but travel conditions were still not good. Accidents were so numerous in the Cheyenne area that the police were only responding to those accidents in which injuries were involved or vehicles were immovable.  I wanted to be present at the cathedral for this special celebration but also wanted to be safe.

As I headed out of the driveway I couldn't see the road.  However, I was familiar with the territory so I knew where it was located.  As I looked at it this morning in the daylight I could see that I was right on target.  Familiarity can help us stay on course.

In our relationship with God we walk by faith.  Sometimes we do not exactly know where we are going, but we continue to move forward in faith.  That is not always an easy thing to do--especially when times are difficult.  I was made very aware of this at an early age when I was diagnosed with cancer the first time at age 25.  Why was this happening?  What was the point?  How do I continue forward when I don't even know if I am going to survive?  A thousand questions flooded my mind.

The amount of hurt and struggle that people face is overwhelming.  Sickness, loss of employment, broken relationships, poverty, or the stress of living in war-torn countries and high crime neighborhoods can all take a toll on our mental, emotional, physical, and spiritual well-being.  We can become worn out by the challenges and struggles of each passing day.  How do we move forward when we can't see the light at the end of the tunnel?

Today, I read an update on Caring Bridge about a young man (19) going through a tremendous struggle.  It was four years ago today on December 13 that a CT Scan revealed a tumor in his brain.  His life, and the life of his entire family, was forever changed.  Although progress has been made over the last four years, there is still a long way to go.  How does one continue to maintain the fight to get well when the odds are so steep?  It is with the grace of God, support from others, and a tenacity developed from deep within oneself. There are times when you can't see where the road leads, but you walk in faith.

This young man was a student at the elementary school of which I served as Principal and Coordinator of Religious Education.  Keeping up-to-date on his story frequently calls me to prayer.  There are times it even brings a tear to my eye.  Why does one so young have to suffer so intensely?  

When I went through surgery and chemotherapy nearly 30 years ago I spent 52 days in the hospital over a four month period. (Who was really counting?) The recuperation took much longer, but at least I was able to somewhat get back into a regular routine after about six months. I can't even imagine how tired, frustrated, and angry I would have been if it would have lingered for years as it has for this young man.


December 13, is the Feast Day of St. Lucy.  There isn't much known about her life; we mainly have legends handed down through the ages.  However, I offer my prayer to God and seek St. Lucy's intercession for all who are hurting. Today, I especially offer my prayer for Sam and his entire family.  May God bless each of you with an abundance of grace, mercy, strength, perseverance, faith, hope, and healing!

"Saint Lucy, you did not hide your light under a basket, but let it shine for the whole world, for all the centuries to see. We may not suffer torture in our lives the way you did, but we are still called to let the light of our Christianity illumine our daily lives. Please help us to have the courage to bring our Christianity into our work, our recreation, our relationships, our conversation -- every corner of our day. Amen"





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How Do You Start Each Day?

12/11/2015

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I saw the above quote from W. C. Fields this morning and chuckled.  I had been referred to as "Mr. Bah Humbug" while doing some Christmas decorating in the office.  (I get to look forward to doing some more when I get home this evening too.)  I am not big into decorating for anything so it is not on my list of favorite things to do.  Thus, in my mind, the good part of decorating is when it is over.  As far as I was concerned, I had started my day off with a smile "and gotten it over with."

On a more serious note, what is our attitude when we begin each day?  Do we look for the graces and blessings that are abundant, or do we look for everything that is wrong?  Are our hearts filled with gratitude?  As followers of Christ it is important that we are people filled with faith, hope, and love. We don't smile to get it over with; we smile because we are blessed and redeemed by God's love.

By the way, my main job is to put the angel on top of the Christmas tree. Being 6'8" tall gives me a skill set not matched by any of my colleagues.
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Do Not Enter The Path To Perdition

12/10/2015

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Anne Morrow Lindbergh is credited with the quote that says, “The most exhausting thing you can be is inauthentic.”  After reading the quote I started thinking about how tired I was feeling.  Was it due to inauthenticity?  I don’t think so.  I think it comes more from not having a day off in a couple of weeks.  However, the quote is still giving me something to ponder.
 
In the Christian life we are called to be holy.  Would that not include being genuine?  As we continue on in this Advent season let us look for those ways to grow in union with Christ.  My encouragement to you today is to turn away from sin in all areas of your life.  Be an authentic follower of Jesus Christ.  Do not enter the path to perdition.

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