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The Opportunity To Grow Old

10/16/2020

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This was my 1982 basketball publicity photo for Northeast Missouri State University.  It is sometimes difficult to comprehend that a mere four years after this photo was taken I was diagnosed with testicular cancer and fighting for my life.

There have been many challenges in life, but 1986 was probably the most difficult.  Surgery and months of chemotherapy resulted in numerous complications, infections, and obstacles I never anticipated.  There were many days and nights (52) in the hospital where I thought twenty five years would be the sum of my days.

I went fifteen years with relatively good health.  I was then diagnosed with cancer a second time.  October 16, 2001 was the date of a complex and delicate surgery for removing a tumor wrapped around my duodenum.  Now, nineteen years later, I am still kicking.  A tip of the hat today to Dr. E. David Crawford at University Hospital in Denver for his skillful work nineteen years ago.

Competitive sports were finished for me upon the completion of college.  The diagnosis of cancer and the after-affects of chemotherapy curtailed many casual sporting activities as well.  As a young man, I frequently felt quite bitter about losing some physical abilities in the prime of my life.  However, in a spirit of gratitude, I have tried to remind myself that not everyone gets to play sports at the collegiate level.  I had the privilege of playing both basketball and baseball at a Division II school in the NCAA.  Cancer did not take away the memories.

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As I celebrate nineteen years of survival on this anniversary of the surgery to address my second diagnosis of cancer, I am appreciative of the six decades of life granted to me.  (Over half of my life has been as a cancer survivor--34 years.)  Not everyone has been as fortunate. 

I never want to take the gift of life for granted.  I worked with a support group called "Make Today Count" for more than ten years back in the late 80's and early 90's.  It was a fantastic group.  Someone handed out pins at one of the meetings that simply said, "Expect a Miracle!"  Not everyone received a miraculous cure, but I believe we all received the miracle of grace.  I saw healing even when someone was not cured.

I want to encourage you to take a few moments to express gratitude to God for the blessings in your life.  Give thanks for a minimum of three particular blessings.

I know that more than a few of my readers are going through some tough times right now.  Please know that I am praying for you.  Stay strong!  Expect a Miracle!

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Donna Casalone
10/16/2020 09:39:54 pm

YOU ARE ONE OF MY BLESSINGS, VERNON.
I STILL HAVE MY "EXPECT A MIRACLE" PIN. WHAT A GREAT MAKE TODAY COUNT GROUP WE HAD!
MY CANCER EXPERIENCE HAS HELPED TO MOLD MY PATH IN LIFE. CLEARLY GOD HAD ANOTHER PLAN FOR YOU TOO. CONGRATULATIONS TO US BOTH ON BEING CANCER SURVIVORS. THANK TOU FOR SHARING YOUR GIFTS
YOU AND MARGARET HAVE TOUCHED OUR LIVES.
TAKE CARE AND STAY SAFE!
DONNA AND GREG♡

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Deacon Vernon
10/19/2020 11:30:26 am

Thank you, Donna. It has been quite the journey.

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Ingrid Borah
10/17/2020 05:38:07 am

I am grateful for the second chance at my faith life after becoming an apostate for 25 years. The church and sacraments mean everything to me. Thank you for sharing your story.

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Deacon Vernon
10/19/2020 11:33:46 am

Thank you, Ingrid, for sharing a brief glimpse of your story as well. Thank you for all you do in your ministry. Finally, thanks for all of your beautiful pictures on social media of Casper Mountain in the snowfall.

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Denise Hawkins link
10/17/2020 11:44:46 am

What a wonderful attitude and a hard-fought anniversary to celebrate. Congratulations! I love what you said, "Not everyone received a miraculous cure, but I believe we all received the miracle of grace." I believe I have received both after my hemorrhage, and I try to remember that grace every day, if not more often. Lately, the fruit of my prayer has me asking the question, "How have I loved today?" I think God is gently pushing me to share that grace I've been so lucky to receive. Thank you for your post. Love the 80's hair too, btw!

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Deacon Vernon
10/19/2020 11:38:24 am

Thank you, Denise. You have had quite the journey as well.

You have been a true inspiration to me. I miss working with you. Your kind and gentle ways were always a blessing in the office.

Keep the beautiful photos coming on social media. You have quite the gift in that arena as well.

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